I’m beginning to realize that every anecdote I put on this blog will be full of some deeper meaning about the ideological differences between this country and my own. But honestly, that’s the mindset that I go into my experiences with every day here. Whenever I see something new or different, my mind instantly transforms what could be a purely sensory experience into a comparison of Cuban and American values and ideals. Here are two examples from the past few days:
Thursday night a few of us decided to walk down to the Malecon, which is essentially a boardwalk at the northern border of Havana where the city meets the ocean. It’s not uncommon for people to go there with the alcohol of their choice, find a spot, and just sit there and converse with whomever they happen to meet in the course of the night. So a group of us grabbed a bottle of rum and walked the 7 blocks or so down to the Malecon. About 5 minutes after we found a good spot, a middle-aged man without a shirt on approached us with his fishing gear (including a large gutting knife). When he realized we were Americans, he immediately became fascinated by us and began speaking with us animatedly, and as if he had known us for years. He was obviously incredibly drunk, so understandably a few of the members of our group decided to go home when he began waving the knife around, unaware of the dangerous nature of his actions. After a friend of his got tired of waiting for him and came to get the knife, the rest of us eased up and began to talk freely with him.
Due to a combination of alcohol and the uniquely Cuban ability to speak intimately about sexual matters with whatever audience without considering it inappropriate, most of our conversation is not fit for print in this medium. However, parts of it were considerably more wholesome, ranging from love advice, to life lessons, to the vast differences between American and Cuban culture. At some point in the conversation he explained to us that he came to the Malecon to fish every night because if he didn’t, his family would starve (some rationing program, huh?). Following this, I asked him what he did for a living, assuming that he would tell me he’d fallen on hard times at some point during his life. His answer shocked me: he was an architect for the city. The reality of his situation really struck me as unlike any story I would hear in the States. The fact that an architect for a major city would be reduced to fishing in the ocean for subsistence really puts into context not only the unfairness, in a sense, of socialism (that someone with such an amazing skill is forbidden from being paid accordingly for his gift), but also the warped perception of “poverty” that we have in the United States.
I also thought it was interesting that a country with such economic and legal rigidity would be so lenient towards our activities on the Malecon (in the United States if hundreds of people gathered with alcoholic beverages for the mere purpose of socializing, it would be considered loitering; here it’s a typical Thursday night). Maybe one day there will be a government somewhere that doesn’t try to control the social, political, or economic aspects of its citizens’ lives.
3 comments:
Yet you have to think...they are 'so happy with their familial and social lives'. How many Americans (where we do 'dream bigger') can really say that?
it all really depends on how you construct what a productive life is. what is really important. in American society the goal is ambition and accumulation. for what? after a certain point it doesn't make sense anymore. so many americans are at the point of accumulation without reason while so many others both within the US and elsewhere are are victims of their over-consumption. whereas strengthening familial and social ties.... that is always a worthy investment. and, additionally, doesn't hare anyone. in your time in cuba i hope that you come to think outside of your american paradigm.
you´re absolutely right, nicole. there are numerous interpretations that one can make as to what constitutes a successful life. but the difference between cuba and america is that here the government doesn´t let you make that choice for yourself. true, the stereotypical american lifestyle is at times full of societal pressure to go down a certain path, and sometimes choices are difficult, but the government never takes AWAY your option to follow whatever path you choose for whatever ¨success¨ may mean to you.
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